Question:
Salaam,
Recently I have started having problems in my marriage due to my husband’s behaviour towards my parents and relatives. He dislikes most of my relatives, which he says is due to his past experiences with them. Slowly slowly our families are falling apart. My mum does not like him anymore due to a recent argument.
It upsets me very much to know that he doesn’t like my family members. I wanted to recite something that can increase the love in the hearts of my husband and family members for each other in particular between my mum and him. Also he can get angry and upset easily, which results in arguments. Please advise as to how I can overcome these problems and if I can do wazifa of Dawood AS in this case.
Jzk
wasalaam
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
If your husband is unable to keep good relations with your relatives as a courtesy toward you, then allow him to leave distance between himself and them as what matters first and foremost is your own couple and immediate family.
Recite “Ya Wadud” [O Loving One] x100-1000 daily. Try to put your love for your husband and his love for you above your love for your parents in importance, let alone his love for them. In sha Allah he can regain the rightful status of being your foremost and dearest concern more than father and mother or even child, as that is the Sunna of the noble women among the believers in the time of our Holy Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) and subsequent times.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
