Request:
Assalam Alaikum Dearest Shaykh Hisham,
May Allah bless you and your family.
I am a murid of Maulana Shaykh Nazim (qs). I have been married since 5 years and suffer from erectile dysfunction which is psychological, as the doctors have told me. I usually have a strong erection when I wake up in the morning. I suffer from severe performance anxiety which keeps increasing with each failure in trying to acquire sohbet with my wife. I have been on medication, but nothing works. Also, when I do manage to get an erection, I can’t ejaculate. My wife is very cooperative, but I am afraid for how long. Can u please advise what to do and make dua for me? Is there any natural medication, also a wird I can do? I sincerely apologise for the bold nature of my question, but I am desperate and at my wit’s end. Help!!
Response:
`Alaykum salam,
Keep wudu’, lower your gaze abroad, be spontaneous at home, and do not think of yourself as performing but as blessed to be alive come what may. Reserve all your anxiety exclusively for your commerce with Allah Most High and He will relieve you in sha Allah.
Recite Ya Mutafaddil Ya Karim x100 daily and, every evening: Surat Tabarak (al-Mulk), last three Suras of Qur’an, Salat Tunjiyya, and x7 the du`a Allahumma jannibna ash-shaytan wa jannibhu ma razaqtana.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
