Question:
I mailed you before as well and I want to thank you for your reply. His family is sort of ready but they want my family to proceed one and ask for rishta which is impossible. My father can make me sit at home all my life but he won’t do so. Please pray for us and tell me anything to pray and tell me please if he is good for me.
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Answer:
Traditionally the boy’s family is the one who comes over and asks, however, if it suits both sides it is not impossible for the girl’s family to visit on a simple social basis. Recite Ya Sattar, Ya Karim 100 times in your du`as for ease. Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham will pray for you.
Hajj Gibril Haddad