Taking revenge from my son with dua

Question:

Salamu alaykum eShaykh,

My son hurt me so much that he wished me the cancer. Wal ayadu billah. I said: “Allah yantaqim minnak” because I can’t handle him. He is a teenager… Allah can handle him. Will Allah take revenge on my son? He broke my finger and now he throw his mobile at me very hard. He is disobeying me all the time and always runs away. Wa ufawidu amri illa Allah. I leave it to Allah now. That’s why I ask revenge. I won’t let him beat me anymore. I cannot save him. Let him drown same as the son of Noah alayhi wa salam. I teach him Quran when he was small, now he refuses and says ‘ufffff’ if I ask him to read. And many things. I’m ashamed to right it here. Please give me advise. And only Allah can forgive him. My forgiveness he doesn’t get it. I forgave him many times. Ibni addabni ktir wa ana ummu.

Wa alaykum salam.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

In case of your son’s apostasy you can stop him from inheriting portions of your wealth. This can be done in case of apostasy or if children kill their parents. However, we recommend that you keep praying for your disobedient son. God willing he will come back to his
senses. Make sure that your son does accompany righteous company.

Imam Senad Agic
American Islamic Center – Chicago
Majlis #1 Head Imam (IABNA)
www.aicchicago.com
www.imamsenadagic.com
www.iabna.org

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