Prayer Request: Ya Saydee, please help for us Husband and Wife

Request:

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As Salam u Alikum Wa Rehmatullahi wa Barakatahu,
Ya Saydee,Ya Dastoor,Ya Sutlan Al Awlya.
May Allah(swt) enoble your face and give you a long healthy life,for you are our only hope and interceeder and redeemer of lost souls.
Ya Saydee,My wife and I have been seperate for 4 years,. She suffers fom multiple health and spiritual problems I can’t make things work from an abolsute failing financial, family, religious and spiritual situation.
Ya Saydee, Ya Dastoor,please pray for her physical and spiritual health and with your absolute blessing and love for us we can be loyal servants of Allah (swt) and your humblest mureeds.
Ya Saydee, Ya Shaykh, please forgive my unhumanly manners.
May Allah(swt) enoble your face and give you long,prosperous and healthy life so that we can be able to take barakah from your holiest presence. Ameen
Your lowest of the humblest mureeds.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah we pray for all of you

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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husband

Question:

assalamu’alaikum.shaykh hisyam kabbani plz make dua for my family,from indonesia.my husband have asked me for poligamy with his ex (although for everyday need was difficult),he said it was his right.i said ‘you can have your right but leave me with the kids’.he canceled it,but he kept his affair and kept lie to me.then i with the kids left him,he asked us to back.now we together but when he got much money for new car,he go for work from morning till late at night,kids alwys ask bout where he is.recently,he doesn’t want to sleep with me.i’ve hard try to be a good wife.it hurts me much,hard to live with him but my kids love him,and i don’t want 2 make our parents sad.what should i do?thanks,i wait for your advice and dua.wassalamu’alaikum.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Make two raka`ats and medidate you will get an answer to your heart follow it.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: unhappy marriage

Request:

Assalamu alaykum wrwb. I am 2nd wife to my husband and he has said no children with me until I live in his country. I dont know when I am able to move because of my daughter from previous marriage (we have shared custody) also she is soon teenager and does not get along with my husband. I am 39 soon and getting frustrated because of my age, maybe it will be too late for me to have children later. My husband is also easily angered and has pornography addiction, on benefit and cannot provide for me financially, looking for 3rd wife even if our marriage contract it says I can have divorce if he does and 1st wife hates me and curses me. Should I stay or leave? I do whatever Mawlana says, I hope this answered by Shaykh Hisham only. JazakAllah Khayran.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Leave. InshaAllah, Allah swt will send better for you.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Business Advise

Prayer Request:

Assalamu ‘Alaykum,

I like to work and achieve results. Whatever Allah sends to me I gladly accept it and try to put my best into it. Recently me and my russian friend received a business proposition to become a main-motor carrier sub-contractor for sports equipment distributor and moving company. We are to organize all freight and fleet operations, in return for 60% of all revenues, plus an additional 20-30% from other services. I know from my experience that it is actually a good proposition. Work should start in 1-2 weeks.
Mawlana, please advise me if I should go with this business or not. I am not really sure about it, because I would have to leave my current job.
Shukran

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah you will be sucessful with Mawlana Shaykh’s baraka.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Festival

Question:

Assalamalaykmum wa rahmatullah hi wa barakatuh Sayedi. I have been toying with the idea of holding a two day sufi music gathering. People would stay at the location and sleep outdoors.. Do you think I should pursue the idea? If yes, where should I donate the money made too. Love you sayedi. Assalamalaykum

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

InshaAllah it is ok. It has to be for the purpose of increasing the love of Allah swt and His Prophet (s_.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Decision making

Request:

Assalamu Alaykum Dear Shaykh,

I received a marriage proposal from one of my close family friend. The girl is in the 2nd year of college and they’re planning to arrange the marriage next year inshallah. Girls father has passed away already. I did salatul istikhara to see if this is suitable for me and what came to my mind that she’s wearing green color clothes in the photo which I received. This looks like its a positive result. Now I am seeking your permission and advise to go forward. Waiting for your reply.
Jazakallah Khair

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Go ahead.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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What is our purpose.

Question:

Assalamu aleykum,
Refering to what Mawlana QS (may Allah give them long life) has said many times that we are not asking our purpose, is this in general terms as well as our unique purpose on an individual level if so then i would like to ask for myself from MSH.QS(Allah give them long life) if this is the right approach and right adab. Jazakallah.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Yes.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: Istikhara regarding residence plans

Request:

Assalamu alaikum ya sayidee

I am a mother of three children who recently got separated from my husband. As a result, I moved from the US where I had lived for more than 20 years, to Egypt, my home country. My husband allowed my children to return with me to study Quran. My husband and children are US citizens while I’m a permanent resident. My predicament is that my husband wants me to file for US divorce papers, give up my permanent residence in the US and stay in Egypt. Friends, relatives and attorneys, advised that I should try to get a US citizenship, despite the hardship and expenses of relocation this might entail. I feel such grief and pain as a result of my situation that I’m unable to make a clear decision I am humbly seeking the advice and istikhara of my Sheikh.

Jazakum Allah kul Kahyr

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Get US passport/citizenship.

Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: For my mother

Request:

Please pray for my mother. She is ill. She has a tumor in her left kidney which is spread towards liver. Please pray….. :(

Response:

May Allah swt give her a cure for sake of Prophet and Mawlana Shaykh.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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Prayer Request: heart broken

Request:

salams ya sayyedi

i am deeply in love with a girl her name is [private].

i let her know of my intention of marrieng her through a friend of hers but she refused. i was very hurt.now whenever i speak she blushes and answers looking down.she looks at me secretly.she feels shy.

ya seyyedi can you please do istikara for me.i did istikara several times but i did not get anything clear.i still love her very much. i am losing concentration on my work and losing my mind i have undergone to much pain for the last two years because of this.

i ask from allah to erase her from my mind if she is not good for me.but every time my love grows stronger and stronger.

please keep all names and countries private.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Read hasbunallah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100 times.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

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