Question:

Guy and I standing by sink. He holds me, he’s naked, kisses my collarbone. I tell him to stop. His fluids are everywhere. Scared/guilty, I tell my mom and brother, find they know.
Part 2: I try to talk him out helping with drug deal. Feds come, I delete related files.

Answer:

If you yourself keep your fard obligations faithfully you may go ahead teaching him about Islam and in sha Allah there will be mutual benefit.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Dream:

AOA,
My name is [private]
On [private] I had a dream with Mawlana Saab in it.
It wasn’t crystal clear but I will tell you what I remember.
When I went to sleep , I had a dream that I was close to fighting one of my old classmates, and I believe Mawlana Saab was their standing by us, when me and my classmate were about to fight. He didn’t say anything to me or my classmate he was just a bystander.
I dont remember me actually getting physical with my classmate I just remember that he was standing beside us the whole time when me and my old classmate were about to throw fists at each other

Please explain my dream..

Interpretation:

Dream teaches patience and strength in illustration of the hadith of the Prophet (saws) who did not interfere even in the face of personal attack against his noble person, however, when someone responded back on his behalf and the dispute flared up, he walked away. Later he explained that angels respond for us when we leave it to Allah to defend us, however, when we take matters into our own hand shaytan is there, so heavenly support is withdrawn.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Dream:

Assalamualaikum. I had a dream last night whereby I was supposed to come for a Naqshbandi gathering at a house(flats) and its block number was 248. I reached there after climbing stairs of about two storeys,and I wanted to go into the room, however, I heard no one doing zikir of any sort. So, I wanted to leave and go back down, as I was gong to leave,I saw Shaykh Nazim and instantly, I turned around, rushed up the stairs to meet him and kiss his hands and kind of hug him, he greeted me with a smile..Beside Shaykh Nazim was Shaykh Gibril. I wanted to greet him too. However he wanted to go up the stairs to level three of the building. However, as soon as I said Assalamualaikum, Shaykh Gibril answered back and let me kiss his hand, while he hold my head close to his body,as if he’s hugging me..What does this dream mean? Then both of the Shaykhs were smiling at me.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,

Dream is about patience and progress with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim pulling us all up regardless of our weakness, mutual love of murids who are all in the same boat in this tariqa and hugging means heart connection.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Question:

I am already married which was a marriage me and my husband don’t want to be in so practically a forced marriage. I have found a man who is committed to me and wants to marry me and I know together we will be happy and I know my current husband will be happy about that too as we have no relationship. So I did istikhara. I saw every body happy outside a theme park I was with family and friends, every body was happy. Then all of a sudden I was with this man. And I saw horses in a field who were playing in the theme park under a ride they hurt a woman who cried.

Answer:

Hurtful horses represent unbridled desire which leads to harm. Curb it by keeping your honor strictly with salat on time and adab of Shariah. This is the way of happiness in dunya and akhira.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Question:

A man inside an alternative medicine office asked, “Are you a Sufi?” I said “yes.” With his hand he squeezed in between my fingers. Another man Dr. Hassasni came in & asked, “Did you feel hot in that area?” I replied “yes.” Two ladies said, “Go inside for more check up.”

Answer:

Hot and final request for more checkup suggest imbalance while the question together with the handshake indicate bayaa. Hasani stands for the murshid. Try to observe the spiritual duties of tariqa more assiduously and to strengthen your belief in your murshid.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

Question:

I saw a dream where my friend is been handcuffed and a girl tried to faint him and he is into a custody and then I reach there and knock that girl’s nose, break my friend’s handcuff, release him, make him wear slippers, carry him on my shoulders and take him.

Answer:

Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-rahmāni r-rahīm

Wa `alaykumu s-salāmu wa rahmatu l-lāhi wa barakatuh

It means that your friend is too much involved in dunya matters, but you will help him to balance his life and turn towards spirituality insh Allah.

And Allah knows best.

Wissam