Request:
Salaam Shaykh,
I wanted to get married to a girl but things went wrong and now she doesn’t talk to me. I am reciting:
• Ya Muqallib al-qulubi wal-absar 100 times daily,
• Ya Daleel al-mutahayyireen 100 times daily,
• Ya Ghiyath al-mustaghitheen 100 times daily,
• laa hawla wa laa quwatta illa billah 100 times daily
• Ya Wadud
• Ya Haaleem
• Ya Latifu Ya Karim
• Ya Hafeedh
• Astagfirullah 300
• Ya Fattah
• Allahumma a`tif qalba Fulan [private] .I read salat haaja as well and I try keeping remembrance of Allah, but it is so difficult to get her out of my mind.
Please pray for me and for her to return and inshAllah we marry ASAP. Anything else I can recite? Jazak Allah Kahir. May Allah bless you.
Response:
Alaykum Salam,
Very good. If no change after 40 days it means there is no permission and you can move on.
Hajj Gibril Haddad