Request:
Assalamoualikoum dear shaiks.
First of all, I would like to congratulate you on this new initiative in order to answer the questions of the mureeds.
I am in my early 30`s. I have found it very difficult to find a wife although due to my family status and job Alhamdullilah, I do get introduced to many girls. For some reasons, I have found it very difficult to find what I am looking for. And if I did accept a girl, for some reasons or others, the introduction would not go further due to my parents not accepting or other huge obstacles. I probably saw over 50 girls in the last 8 years.
I have also done hajj twice in order to present my duah to Allah (swt) for the purpose of getting married, pray tahajjud regularly for that purpose, pray salatul hajjat and give regular sadaqah for the sake of getting married – but so far, I am still finding it difficult. This is now coming to the point where I am feeling stressed about finding a wife. Everyone of my family or friends are simply surprised that I have not found a wife yet.
Could you please let me know the possible reasons for the delays for me in finding a wife( e.g. jealousy,….) and I would also kindly request you to pray for me so that I can find my wife soon Insha Allah or if you could recommned of a wasifa..
If you need further details on me, i would be happy To provide them.
Salam
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
Ya Muyyassiru kulli `asir yassir lana umurana bi-hurmati Sayyidina Muhammad wa ahli baytihi ‘t-tayyibeen at-tahhireen
Ya Ghani 100x daily.
Taher Siddiqui