Question:
cause I am single I do haram regularly since 2005 I can’t stop it
when I get married I will have lost my energie!
I feel far away from ALLAH and to his massenger what could I do to converge to ALLAH???
Cause my fiancee’s family is false to me I hate them so much that I feel this hate would kill me.
I pray often that the [] army will kill her family, “ALLAHs shame on her family”
I never fought for my right in my live and people do with me what they want
this time I swear to my self that I will take my right
her family should know that they can’t take my rights
I even thought to tell [] police what they talk about the regime
But I prefer to fight in an islamic way for my rights so how could I do that???
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
1 haram + 1 haram = lots of harm.
Consider: if you stop doing haram your situation will come around insha-Allah. How can you dream to curse the very family whose daughter’s hand you seek? Would the results please her?! Perhaps they perceive that dirty action you are doing, and thus are holding back.
To reduce sexual desire for an unmarried person, the Prophet’s (s) recommendation is to fast.
We continue to advise, seek a Shaykh, take his hand (initiation) and your life will take an immediate turn for the better, insha-Allah. Don’t say “where can I find a shaykh?” You are in the Home of Shaykhs.
and Allah knows best,
Taher Siddiqui
