Request:
Asalamu alaykum shuyukh,
There’s a guy that I am interested in for marriage. Even though he is orphaned he comes from a really good family. I want to get to know him but I’m embarrassed to approach him, his sisters, or my brother. I don’t know how to inquire about him.
What can I do? Is it possible for me to pray istikhara even know there’s no interest or acknowledgement from his side.
Is there anything i can read to see whether or not he’s interested in me?
Response:
`Alaykum Salam,
Communicate through a female relative of yours and his sisters, or write him a letter.
Hajj Gibril Haddad