Question:
I don’t have a system in my live
and I don’t know how to bring a system in my live after marriage!
coud you give me some advices according to islamic life planning
and islamic family planning, educational methods,
islamic activities and projects.
Expecially how to plan and how to bring a system in our
daily routine/everyday life?
What is important to pay attention for?
What should we avoid?
How could I/we fresh and refresh our marriage and daily routine/everyday life?
How could we use evry minute after our marriage in an islamic way?
I also don’t have an excactly aim in my life
and could I be independent from my wifes family and safe
from their negeative influence
and please pray for us
and for all other married couples
and that ALLAH helps me to find a good job and good house and
good place to study
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you and your marriage.
Every system must have a director. That is a basic principle. The director in Islamic life is your Shaykh. There is a famous saying, “who has no shaykh, shaytan is his shaykh.” Without a guiding murshid it impossible to establish an Islamic lifestyle.
and Allah knows best,
Taher Siddiqui
