Prayer Request:
Salaam to all.
Alhamdulillah to Allah for sending beautiful prophets, awliya and sheikhs!
i did Istikhara before sleeping to marry a girl,Alhamdulillah MSH was in dream and gave permission. We were sat in forrest,trees everywhere it was Maghrib time. I got up to pray,Alhamdulillah i prayed behind MSN. I had feelings that after this Salah Imam Mahdi A.S is coming.
MSN says finish education,then marry..the girl MSH gave permission to marry is in univeristy,inshallah graduating in 2 years. My question is: Should i wait for her to finish university or should we marry beforehand?
The girl recently took baya online,however,our family may not want us to marry at “such a young age”.
Any recitation to remove the walls of our family not allowing us to marry because of our age?
You have answered some quetions of mine in the past and ALHAMDULILLAH what you said has come true.
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your marriage.
You may request your and her parents to allow you to make a conditional nikah, as they often do in Arab countries. That is they marry with the condition the couple will not have marital relations, but they are allowed to go out together and sit alone together, and usually a time or condition is specified after which the unconditional marriage will be done.
Recite: Allahuma Ya Muyassiru kulli `asir yassir umurana
and: Ya Mufattihu’l-abwab iftah lana khayru ‘l-bab with salawat.
Taher Siddiqui
