Prayer Request:
Aoa, i am very much worried about my marriage. I am 31 years old and doing job in a private organization. last year i was upset, i recited Istikhara dua before sleeping. I saw someone saying me in dream that “be patient. if you get married right now, it may not be successful”..i know that all this happen with Allah’s will, and nothing is better for us than His will…but inspite of this belief, i often get very depressed. Also, there is a guy in my office .he is married, but he stares me a lot from last 2.5 years…i know he likes me, but of course nothing could happen now..please suggest something for me..is there any way that i can get married with that man? what should i do?
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani will pray for you to find a suitable husband, insha-Allah.
Men by their lower nature, stare at women. That does not mean a man is good for you. The best for a woman in your situation is to have your family assist you in finding a good husband. If they are unable or unavailable, then a close friend can help, someone with your best interests in mind.
and Allah knows best,
Taher Siddiqui