Request:
Asalamu allaykum.
We married in july 2010 with Moulana Shaykh Nazim blessings may Allah (swt) extend their life inshallah
Since we have suffered miscarriage in January and Oct 2011. Both occasions my wife suffered abdominal, lower back, cramping, and shoulder pain, Both miscarriages occurred between 10 to 12 weeks into the pregnancy.
We live in the Uk, medical advise was taken because the pains was unbearable, doctors discovered a twisted ovary the first occasion carried out an emergency operation They suspected ectopic pregnancy on both occasions but did not diagnose as ectopic pregnancy.
We are aware Moulana Shaykh Nazim disapproves of scans but we was previously advised to seek medical help on eshaykh. please advise how soon we should try again & how to have a succsesful pregnancy inshaallah pray for us.
May Allah bless you all and Endless Salawat be upon our Master Muhammad Sallallahu alahi wassalam inshallah.
Response:
Alaykum as-Salam,
Your miscarriages represent tests and rewards of the highest order as promised by the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace). Trust in Allah Most High, give sadaqa and try again without fear. Read here and here.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
