Request:
Dear Sir,
We both loved each other from years, she was supposed to tell her mother so we could get married but she suddenly changed. She has misunderstanding that I will doubt her when she marries, which is not true and told me she fears telling her mother. She didn’t tell her mother on the day she promised she would, she suddenly changed.
I have changed my phone number as she told me to go away, I was waiting for her for years just to get married, and now she left me, I want her to get married to me. Please pray for me? I am in great pain these days and praying, crying day-and-night. I don’t know anyone else to get married to and in pain trying to forget her.
Thank you
Response:
Have you approached her parents concerning marriage in all those years?
You seem to be of two minds concerning her and appear to have been so
for a long time. It is time to move on and in time you can forget her.
When Allah sends someone new try to make up your mind in a matter of
months, not years, and you can make your proposal in a straightforward
manner at that time.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
