Question:
Assalamu alaykum.
I an writing for the third time( Did not get any reply ),i am affected by Evil eye since childhood. In my childhood i was very beautiful but now i see myself ugly maybe because of the evil eye, my dear ones always asked me why I’m not so beautiful now!! I got some proposals which i refused since they are not of my choice. I always wanted to marry a young fair handsome boy who have a good job. Please ask Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani to pray for me and for my health and get back my beauty. My Name is [private] (please hide my name, except from Mawlana) if you want to know my full name plz email me and i’ll be waiting for you.
jazakallah
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Woman’s beauty is reserved for her husband. Thus, when you marry, insh-Allah, keep your eyes for him and he keeps his eyes for you. Cover yourself and you will find the evil eye drops, because the hair is the focus of envy for women, according to our Shaykhs’ teaching. If a woman covers her beauty from non-mahram men, her beauty is preserved. Be sure to wear the tawiz of Mawlana Shaykh at all times.
If someone has a pretty daughter, it is important to teach her to cover from a young age – that will accustom her to hijab and protect her in her youth. Many of us parents today don’t train our daughters (or sons for that matter) to cover properly, then expect them to suddenly start to cover when they reach maturity, and this is unreasonable, especially in the West. If you cannot cover completely, (and many today don’t find the inner strength to do so) then at least wear some kind of kerchief or ribbon, tie up your hair in a bun or braid it.
Taher Siddiqui
