Question:
Assalam wa aalaikum brother, I am in a relationship with a girl for a long time and we didn’t knew about istekhaara but when I came to know about it we both agreed on asking Allah’s help to move further in our relationship. When we performed istekhaara following the nafil prayer and the duaa for istekhaara.. I recited the dua three times while the girl recited it for 1 time only. Later she saw a white clothed person in a dark room and the clothe was vibrating white light. Now on my side I saw nothing in my dream but I have started getting negative feelings regarding her. I was deeply in love with her but now i dont feel the same as i used too before. Brother please help me I am very confused. What shud I do? Please reply me as soon as possible..
Thank u Jazaak’Allah.
Answer:
Alaykum salam,
Whiteness represents pure intentions surrounded by the darkness of bad manners as your initial feelings were from your ego-nafs. When you both turned to Allah both your visions cleared. If you have marriage intentions then propose to her family which you should have done already. If not, then you have no business with her.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
