Question:
I think I created a big fitna by sending a message to the girl (on facebook) I wanted to marry. I told her about my bad habits cause I am not married yet. I also told her what her family said to me about her (although it was only one of her brothers) that they said she would be a bad girl and spoiled and they would have doubts about her deen and iman…
I wanted revenge cause they broke their promise but I think this is fitna and burden and stress for the girl so how could I make good for the fitna I created?
Answer:
Your best course of action at this time, after so much “water under the bridge” is to leave her alone. Apologize to her for last post and say you will no longer be in touch, good-bye and then cut the connection.
Taher Siddiqui
