Question:
Assalammu’alaykum ya Sayyidi and all,
In reference to my previous post, https://eshaykh.com/dreams/strong-light-from-the-quran/. My istikhara was whether keeping contact with a particular muslim man I know would be good for me or not as I would like to like to marry him. I do not think the muslim man is interested in marriage with me but my heart is telling me otherwise. Is it the devil messing with my heart. Should I live this situation and move on. In this current times we are easily tripped by the devil. Please forgive me for my bad adab and prayer for my family/relatives/friends/me. Your time and effort is highly appreciated. Many Thanks.
Answer:
Wa `alaykum salam,
If he proposes to you go ahead. If he is not proposing it is not good adab to throw yourself on him, so move on with your life unless you have a girlfriend or relative that can go and try to bring this issue to him by asking him what he thinks about this girl to marry. Insha-Allah, then you can then see if he is interested as it might be he is shy to tell you.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
