Question:
I met a guy and started texting. He confessed to me that he was in love with a girl and he stopped contact because she’s in school and her family disapprove. He says he’s over her but now and again and he says the feelings towards her are back and he thinks what he had with her is true love. At the same time he says I’m perfect for him and can see us spending our lives together but he can’t get that “love” feeling with me. On my side I performed istikhara and was positive seeing a baby girl dressed in white and I also saw myself flying over beautiful green trees on a flying carpet but got scared after seeing a cat sit next to me. He has also once dreamt that we were in a river with a huge fish. Please advice on what should I do?
Answer:
Baby girl, white color, flying high and huge fish all represent you as innocent and precious. Cat here represents thievery and surreptitiousness. It is best to ask for a clear position or else move on and, rather than texting, follow a more open path of communication where Allah will match you with someone who is worth your while.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
