Question:
Salam Alaikum @ eshaykh.. Special Salams to Maulana Sheikh Nazim & Maulana Sheikh Hisham Kabbani & all family!
My question is: If a wife is constantly told by her Husband that he wants to have physical contact like a husband & wife do, but he doesn’t find her attractive. He says he Is sacrificing for children’s sake ..what should the wife do? Thank you wsalam.
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Recite Ya Wadud x100 daily to increase love. Ask your husband not to say hurtful things to you because it is not noble, and hurting a wife’s feelings does not help make her more attractive. Always Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is advising husbands: Don’t be rude. Our Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) made all of Islam hinge on good manners. As for
yourself, try your best to remind him of why he loves you in the first place, and why he is still attracted to you as a wife and not just for sacrifice.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
