Question:
Assalaualaykum,
Where do I start? Well, there’s this boy I would like to marry. Inshallah he is a good guy now who has changed from his bad ways and is becoming a good Muslim. He is a mureed of Mawlana Sheikh Nazim. He wants to marry me so we can stop sinning and meeting so we can become good Muslims and be close to our faith. After marrying I would like to take bayyat and make Mawlana Sheikh Nazim happy in every way. For me to be a good Muslim I have to marry him. But my mum is making it very difficult for me to marry him. She does not believe in out of family marriages:( Please help me and give me advise on how we can marry earlier and get my mum to accept I want everyone to be happy.
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Stop sinning in any case. Then you will see more clearly and there will be blessing in your choice. Speak with your parents and express your intention and wishes to them. In sha Allah the blessing of Ramadan and Eid will bring happiness to everyone over this issue.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
