Prayer Request:
I love a boy. He loved me too, but now he doesn’t show interest in me. Last year he sent her mother to my home but her mother rejected me because of cast difference. Now my family want to marry me with another but I want him back in my life. Now he don’t care me. Plz help.
Answer:
A`udhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajeem
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem
In a similar post, Shaykh Gibril Haddad gave the following advice:
If a groom’s parents or bride’s parents are against a marriage the son
or daughter will not want to break their parents’s hearts. A hadith
states “Approval from parents means approval from Allah” and the sign
of permission in a project is ease and facility, not difficulty on top
of difficulty. Make dua, give sadaqa, trust in Allah and have some
patience. If the obstacles do not clear by Eid’s time it might be best
to move on.
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