Question:
Salaam, i am ashamed to be 1 of many who have been in a haram relationship.we do want to marry each other but i believe there may be a 70%chance that both families will agree. I feel i must him now as iv already sinned with him&to console myself.
Answer:
wa alaykum salam,
Try to find an imam who will do your nikah, then approach your families.
Taher Siddiqui