Question:
I want to know that Marriage is previously fixed by ALLAH or not? I know that a part of feamle body’s bone is made of husband’s bone. Is it true? Then how can we select our predefined husband? I have no clear idea about marriage. Please clarify me in the light of islam, Sunnah and Quran.
Answer:
Allah Most High asked us to assume responsibility for our choices including marriage, without predeterminism (jabr) which is not accepted in Islam. So there is no predefined unique-husband profile other than the directive clarified from the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace), which is that “when someone whose religious practice is acceptable proposes to you, accept him.
Hajj Gibril Haddad