Question:
Salam alaikum and Allah bless you for the great work you are doing. My question is a bit personal but inshallah others will benefit. I have found after being married for many years my wife physically will pass many days sometimes a week or two before approaching me again. I have told her how i feel about this and that it makes me feel uneasy and tempted by wrong things. Is there any ruling on sexual relations with your wife or husband as a guidline.
Answer:
Be more romantic with your wife, bring flowers, flatter her, approach her smoothly, choose good timing, not when she is asleep or tired. This is very personal matter, you know how to act, no need for guideline, be gentle and loving.
Hajjah Naziha
