Question:
Salamun Alaykum,
Dear Mawlana
i’d like to apologize for the lack of adab. I’m a 41 yr old husband & my marriage was 15 years old. I’ve a lot of mistakes on my marriage, especially to my wife. so that my wife had no affection to me anymore, and it started from July this year. I realized my mistake, & I tried to redeem it. I repent for all my mistakes. I don’t want separation. I still love her & need her so much. My wife recently often chat with several men who she met through social networking on the internet. I always ignored, I try to talk about it, but my wife is always angry & asked me not to interfere. how I should behave to this situation? and how can I restore my wife to me again, please advice what and how should I do?
Wassalamun Alaykum
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
First of all, make her stay away from the fitnah of enjoying Internet chat. You can’t know how to obey the green light if she does not learn how to obey the red light.
Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago
