Family Issues



Marital relations, parenting issues, sibling relations, interaction and behavior with relatives near and far.


Prayer Request: Istikhara request

After doing istikharas and knowing a guy the proper way and with families involved, I (Uzma – divorced with no kids) got engaged to guy (Ravi – divorced with 2 girls) and he suddenly backed out 2 weeks before marriage by email. My dad did istikhara afterwards as he knew that I liked the guy and he liked me and the families liked each other, and my dad saw Ravi and me sitting with his girls telling them that we all had to live along with each other. He has not contacted me for 5 months now. Whenever I did istikhara, I don’t get the feeling that I should of forget him and move on. I think of him day and night despite daily namaz and a lot of zikr. Can you please do istikhara if he is good for me or not? Continue reading

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Schizophrenia

Question: Assalamualaykum ya sayidiHow are you ? The doctors diagnosed schizophrenia, and I suffer from panic attacks.And I had 1 psychotic attack around a year ago, and I’m scared that I’ll get one again.what do I doand how to get … Continue reading

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Spouse issues

I found [my wife] to be very insecure, and very disrespectful at times and doesn’t listen to me Continue reading

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Second marriage

I came across a message that says Shaikh Mehmet Adil has is not allowing anyone to marry second time Continue reading

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Husband stop divorce papers, and affair with other woman

How can I stop divorce papers in process Continue reading

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Iddat after divorce

If a woman is separated for one year and later the man divorces her, is she supposed to observe iddat? Continue reading

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boy misbehave and left but istakhara is positive

Saw dream of bright light green colour Continue reading

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Divorce / Khula’

I have been legally divorced by the court since 2019.  I am trying to get my Islamic divorce Continue reading

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OCD taking over my life

I hv 3 children and need to wash them all the time. Continue reading

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Divorce and Mental Health

A husband divorced his wife 3 times in 1 sitting saying “talaq” thrice. Continue reading

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