my sister saw that we both are present somewhere and our dearest Prophet Muhammad (s) comes there and gets angry on both of us because he says that why did I buy a black high heel shoe. out of his anger he slapped both of us on our heads one by one.
It means for both of you to start with the head and put first things first. Observe your obligations and receive the glad tidings of a marriage with a Prophetic descendant and a blessed life in dunya and akhira in sha Allah.
Hajj Gibril Haddad