Question:
Assalam Walaykum.
I am a 34 year old woman & my marriage will be 10 yrs old in Dec 2011. I had a love marriage and thought I was marrying a man who deeply cared & loved me. I was wrong. For the majority if the 10 years my husband ignores me. I work, contribute financially cook & clean and not appreciated. He hardly speaks with me and I’ve spent most of the 10 years like an invisible person. He communicates to me via shouting when he wants money (he works). He sneers at me with hatred & looks at me with disgust. I don’t know what I have done wrong. We don’t have normal relations either. He hasn’t allowed me to get pregnant because we don’t have a house. What do I do? Leave him? Pls make duaah.
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
Leave him since you have no children and you are the one working and he is not working. If he is treating you with that kind of situation, leave him and Allah opens for you a new door and opens for him a new door. We make du`a for you insha-Allah.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
