Question:
Salaam
I wrote previously, asking about a dream interpretation, & Hajj Gibril Haddad replied. In the dream I said I was surrounded by darkness, and mum wouldn’t allow light into the house because we are having family issues. Then I met MSN and he said he would pray for me. Haji GH told me to submit to my parents, and if I submit to my parents, that means I should leave my husband who is a white revert, & marry my cousin from back home? Does that make sense? I am confused. Is he saying I should leave my husband? Even though my uncle and a Sheikh approved my marrige to my husband!
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
What Hajj Gibril means is to submit to your parents meaning not to fight with them and not to argue with them. Since your husband is a convert, try your best for him. When a girl is married her responsibility is to the husband. Your responsibility is not to your father and mother, but to be good with them. Seeing Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim al-Haqqani praying means he is sending his support to you.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
