Question:
Asalamualikum Maulana Shakyh Hisham and Respected Shayukh
I have been married for eleven years and i have 2 children.
My husband is always on facebook until 4am . He talks to women, saying they are discussing islam. The first time this happened I was close to a nervous breakdown. I tell him to delete these women but he does not listen or feel he is in wrong. It is happening again with another sister, I deleted her but he added her again, this leads to many arguments and stress, and I am pregnant.
I dhikr hasbunallah rabunallah to calm me down but just looking at him makes me angry. He is not working and doesn’t feel the need to unless internet is cut off
i really do feel fed up with this marriage and need ask for your advice and prayers for what I can do to help my marriage
Answer:
Wa `alaykum salam,
Read hasbunallah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100x in addition to hasbunallah rabbun-Allah. You have 2 choices, either be patient and accept this situation until the recitation takes the situation to a good process or you threaten him that you cannot stay with him and see the result.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
