Request:
As-Salaamu alykom wr wb Mawlana(q), Hajjah(q) and all,
My relationship with parents is very bad. I have been a cause of pain to them intentionally and unintentionally. You know best, Sayyidi.. living together yet, I’m alone… several efforts have been in vain…please guide me along. If only I were a dead doll, to move on command, I may please them and brothers. Yet again, it may or may not…
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
These are your parents. As the Holy Qur’an says, don’t even say uff to them. Don’t get into arguments and fight. Be patient and listen to them, and even if they are wrong, don’t show any anger.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani