Question:
As-Salaamu alaiykum wr wb,
If having a good family is something that is looked for in a spouse, please suggest how somebody that does not have a good family will find a good spouse. Please pray for me as I have recently had a big disappointment in marriage and tariqa. I am sure that you know. It is really not that easy to get married and being celibate is unhealthy. Why is there nobody in tariqa to lend a helping hand?
Answer:
wa `alaykum salam,
May Allah give you a good spouse whether you have a good family or not. Many are praying for you.
Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani