Marrying a deobandi as a women

Question:

I have brought a good potential spouse to my parents. Him & his family are deobandis however he understands sufism & is open to it & respects it. My parents are very wary. I see potential in him as he fits my criteria. Is this marriage permissible & easy?

Answer:

Hadith: “The good pleasure of Allah is in the good pleasure of the father and mother.” Our teachers said to look well at this Hadith and see how the Prophet (upon him blessings and peace) made the good pleasure of the parents the zarf (container) in which is found the divine good pleasure. If, in your own words, your parents are very wary, it means Allah is telling you to be very wary.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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