Question:
Assalam alaikum,
My name is [private] and I am 2_ years old. Two years ago I fell in love with and Mashaallah today I am engaged to the same girl still. Her name is [private] and her mother’s name is [private]. Lately, we have been quarreling a lot over petty things. We live in different countries hence we get to meet only a couple of times every year. I wanted to ask for Allah’s help which I need constantly, to guide us through this phase and whether we really are meant for each other.
I request you to please keep the information private. My mother’s name is [private].
Thanks and Best Regards
Jazakallah!
Answer:
`Alaykum Salam,
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham will pray for you. Six months maximum is best for engagement, not more, and also living under the same roof is indispensable for people who were never married before. Try to meet those two requirements so difficulties do not keep growing and ruin your plan to start a family.
Marry without delay. Recite “Ya Haleem “ in your heart x100 every time
an argument looms and do not quarrel.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
