Question:
I have been married 10 years. Now my husband has changed in the last 6months. I do not even recognize him and his manners. He is very unfair to me and our son. We both work long hours but he contributes to almost no chores and he does not pay any bills. I am now pregnant. I feel trapped because he has refused me from going to see my family with my son. My son has noticed that his father is very short tempered with us but is delightful to his friends and family. My son is very hurt at how he treats us. I feel trapped and I cannot stop thinking about a trial separation. I am so hurt and betrayed but I do not want to break up the marriage. But I have not seen any positive change but I have been making dua constantly. Much greeting to Shk Nazim.
Answer:
Continue unabated with your dua. Tell or write your husband your feelings as maybe he does not realize the extent of your state. Persevere, Allah is with those who have patience.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
