Difficulty finding a marriage partner


Assalamaleikum Eshaykh staff.

Today in this kind of environment for religious and good honest people it is not easy to get married. Why is it so difficult? Why have parents difficulty to find correct and good husband/wife for their children? I’m in same situation. I give divorce to my wife back in 2010 because she had affairs with another person. And I didn’t know it. She was doing it behind me. It was a shock for me and my family.

Now I’m 3_  years old Alhamdolillah from Pakistani Naqshbandi mujaddadi background and it is still difficult hard to find right match.Is this a test from Allah or it is sign of end of times and Qayamah? I’m getting more and more sexually frustrated.


Audhu billahi min ash-shaytan ir-rajim
Bismi-llāhi r-raḥmāni r-raḥīm

Wa alaikum Salaam,

Yes, as you said there is wide spread corruption and we are in the times that match the description of what the Prophet (saws)related before the appearance of Mahdi (as). During that time of Mahdi and Jesus (as) the balance will be restored and happiness will fill the earth. In the mean time keep your obligations, sunnah such as fasting, and Love for Prophet (saws) and Awliya and keep making dua for a suitable wife. May Allah reward your patience and open a way for you.

Wallahu Alam,

Kamau Ayyubi

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