Question:
Salaam Alykium wa Ramatullahi wa Barakatuhu,
I have a problem with pornography, which makes me very ashamed. I have tried everything I know and keep falling back into it. I know it is haram, and I fear the day of judgement greatly. It seems to be a vicious cycle of commiting, repenting, ghusl, and then again. Is there any dua, dhikr, or anything I can do which can help to cure this disease in my heart? I try to lower my gaze as well, but it is like something else takes me over at these times.
Wa Salaam
Answer:
Refer to Shaykh Taher’s answer to a similar situation (from “Masturbation problem!!!”)
“That has become a habit for you. Offering prayers is not sufficient in this age of gross materialism and sexual provocation. You need to be under the spiritual guidance and support of a guided shaykh. Under his guidance insha-Allah you will be able to rid yourself of this habit.”
Fasting is common therapy; since Ramadan is coming soon, try doing it now. If you are single and capable, consider getting married, for that shall protect your faith.
Abdul Shakur
