Question:
Asalamualaikum.
I am married for 11 yrs now, my husband has cheated on me before, and I forgave him. Of late I have suspicions that he has been seeing a women, because of small clues I collect on his shirt/ behaviour.
On the other hand, I have dreams which imply he is going to a lady. I console myself that I should leave it in Allah’s hands but I I can’t stop dreaming with regards to it, which makes me more confused.
I have spoken to him several times, however, he has denied all the way and reassures me its not what I think. What should I do??? I have three children and getting stressed to a stage I can’t concentrate on anything else, which makes me cry.
May Allah give me proper guidance. Ameen.
Answer:
Alaykum Salam,
Ask Allah Most High for protection from shaytan and make istighfar 100
times. Then tell your husband of your condition and that you prefer his
honesty with you even more than his faithfulness to you. If he swears
that nothing is going on then accept his reply and ask Allah Most High
for protection from shaytan and whisperings. Recite daily “Ya Wadud, Ya
Jabbar” x100, in sha Allah your state will improve and love increase
between the two of you.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
