Question:
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Is sex with someone with whom I have intention to get married, so is sex allowed with that girl before marriage?
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And is it ok to kiss a girl and hold her hands if my intention is to get married to her?
Even if sex isn’t allowed then is kissing and holding hands allowed with whom I plan to get married?
Answer:
It is good to ask. The answer to both questions is no. What is allowed outside of marriage is decent conversation but not physical contact and not intimate settings such as sharing a secluded or private space.
Hajj Gibril Haddad