Advice from sheikh Gibril Haddad

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Request:

Assalamu’alaykum sheikh.
My name is [private] and I’m from [private]. I don’t know if you remember me but i cannot forget you. Dear sheikh Gibril, I’m in great need of your help.. My mind is very troubled at the moment. We were studying Surah Al Munafiqoun with [private] and there is a verse saying that Allah SWT will never ever forgive them. This troubled me a lot… I even spoke to [private]. in the past I happened to say some things about our beloved Prophet SAW, but now I really regret it. My mind is very troubled and O don’t know what to do. I may have said it due to ignorance. I don’t know sheikh. please please help me…

Response:

Alaykum Salam,
 Allah Most High forgives everything if one repents. Just make fresh
istighfar every time you recall your past offence, without need to
mention the exact nature of that offence to anyone. Make lots of Salawat
on Prophet daily. Even would-be assassins of Prophet (upon him blessings
and peace) became Awliya through his dua.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request:Evil thoughts & Addiction

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Request:

Salam,

I am in much problems from 1 year I’m affected by black magic. Some says it is and evil jinn, and some say angel, black magic…I  am get addicted of watching adult movies and masturbation. I do not want to do this but there came a strange dream once in week (erotic or other strange ones). If it not, it comes then waswasas of serious nature that I have nothing…. Like should I leave ISLAM Please help me, I do not want to be evil as I am becoming, but black magic and/ or jinn taking me to hellfire! I do many wazaif to kill my nafs also get taweez many times from Islamic exorcists but nothing happened. Please give me any wazifa to leave this bad habbit and to get rid of evil thoughts and also to burn black magic or jinn..( I have done istikharas many times to know but I did not see result)

Response:

`Alaykum Salam,

Addiction never goes away but power to resist can be built up and reduce it. Take bayaa with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret) online if not already, wear his tawiz, remove internet from your room if that is the case, recite the daily wazifa for beginners from Naqshbandi.org, join a circle of dhikr in your area, make niyya to get married and ask for a good life from Allah Most High.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Disobedient Children

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Request:

salamu alaykum wa rahmatulah ya shaykh,

I’m really in need of a prayer dua. I have disobeying sons [private] and [private], teenagers. I am a single mother and they beat me if i don’t give them something like game or something dunyawiyyah. They pray, alhamdulilah,  but that’s it ! I’m tired and I  need special dua please tell me what dua is the best because I read online many dua for disobeying children. What should I  do so they can love me and obey me? allahumma salli 3ala mohammed ya rabb.allahumma nsurni min awladi laa yuti3uni abada.

Response:

Alaykum Salam,

Do not let them beat you ever. Inform them that the curses of Allah and His angels are on the heads of those who beat their parents. If you love them get married at once and bring back the fear of Allah into their hearts or they will have a disastrous end. Recite “Ya Fattah, Ya Hafiyy” x100 every morning.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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One Shaykh Recommended not reading Qur’an

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Question:

As-salamu `alaykum Mawlana Shaykh Hisham and TEAM:
One sister attending my dhikr circle went to a Sudanese Shaykh located at Imam Hussein Mosque. He told her to stop attending Qur’an tajweed class and stop reading Qur’an for a while and read only Fatihah 1001 times or something like that and then later go back to reading Qur’an. And he justified this by saying that Jinn are resisting her Qur’an reading. This is very confusing for me to hear. Please advice. May Allah bless you.

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
 It is okay to recite 1001 Fatiha as a cleansing but as for saying that the Jinn resist the Qur’an then no, because Allah Most High said in Surat al-Jinn that they declared hearing a wondrous Qur’an that led to guidance, so how can they resist it?

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Dream: Friend’s dreamed about Istakhara

Posted on May 11, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Dream:

Salaam,
MSH and the eshaykh team. I  told my friend to do istikhara on my behalf in order to find if this girl is good for me… he told in the dream I  also asked him to do istikara for him and he said OK. When I saw him in his dream I asked him if I’m getting married and he said to me you getting married and my reaction was happy in his dream.

Now I need help in a way to tell the girl this without scaring her away…also I haven’t asked a girl out in my life, let alone ask a girl for marriage, this will be my first time. I don’t have a clue how I’m going to explain this to her and also why I’m scared how she will react.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,
 Have your parents or elders speak with her parents or elders.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Please, what does this mean?

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Question:

assalaam alaikum shaykh hisham kabbani, I would like to ask you two questions. I hear like a sound of a clock or a alarm clock in my room and but I don’t have a alarm clock in my room. It’s like a ticking sound in my ear I just cant stop sometimes. Sometime I go closer where the sound is coming from but there is nothing there. Does this mean anything? Please I need to know, so I can understand. Also I use to be able to connect with Maulana shaykh Nazim through rabitah but it seems that I cant connect with him like I use to. Jazakkallah for that you are doing may Allah reward you all, the team at eshaykh allah hafiz

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
 Sometimes the heart’s dhikr of “Allah, Allah” is audible in our ears. It is a reminder and also a connection to Mawlana.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Bad Dreams & Complications in life

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Dream:

Am since years my mum dreams all kind, animals, wilds and impure things and bad things. She also remain sick her left hand always pain cannot make much effort and father also have many difficulties. My brothers does not listen to my mum not study and work, my sister also get pain in her leg and mostly cannot concentrate on study she was a good student at times but now she cannot really do it. I have divorced in _0 days of marriage and now again start new. Am working and studying, cannot not concentrate as well and lots of problem in work, fight etc… and at home as well just like no barakat and light in our work, health, education, food and house has ruined….

Please help us from all the problem. Thank you.

Interpretation:

Do good and say good as much as possible beginning with five daily Salats. Allah Most High will put back light in your life insha-Allah. Make bayaa to Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret) online and try to join a circle of dhikr in your area. Mawlana is praying for you insha-Allah.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Convert from Hinduism

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Request:

I reverted to Islam from a Hindu background 3 years when I was 1_. At the current age 2_, I have still not told my parents about my faith, and I am afraid to do so because of their reaction. Can you please pray that my parents hearts soften to Islam? I fear offering salat in my own home because my parents will see me. My family does not have a very positive attitude for Islam, and they question why I am so interested in it. I want them to all embrace Islam.

On another really important note, can you prescribe me any dua or taweez for self-growth? Since childhood I have been very lazy, introverted, not good at making friends, in-confident in speech, nervous, etc. I am afraid to ask a question in class in front of everyone. My focus and concentration is low. I am also not self-disciplined.

Response:

No need to tell them and open a war front. Bear with patience and pray for them. By improving your spiritual state Allah Most High will attract them without a word.

For concentration and speech read Surat al-Mulk and Salawat on the Prophet. Make bayaa if not already, and wear Mawlana Shaykh Nazim (Allah bless his secret)’s Taweez.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Problems with new husband and inlaws

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Question:

Assalaamualykum I pray you are all in the best of health and imaan

I have recently got married and my husband and I argue and fight a lot of the time, also my in-laws are not very nice to me I just found out I’m pregnant also and still they are not caring. Please could you pray for me and let me know what I can read to help the situation, I also am scared about the pregnancy too please can you advise about this.

Jazakallah khair

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,

Recite “Ya Wadud, Ya Hannan” daily x100 and forgive them all each night. For ease in pregnancy and delivery read Surat al-Balad often.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: Sins of the Past

Posted on May 10, 2012 by Shaykh Gibril Fouad Haddad

Prayer Request:

Assalamu’alaikum beloved Sheikh Gibril,

My past sins are troubling me. They are tormenting me. its the things that i said against Islam in the past. I’m from a Muslim family, but I lacked a lot of knowledge and understanding, but now i really regret things I’ve done or said.. I already repented for my sins, but they keep haunting me. At times i have some relief but at other times I’m really sad. I don’t know what to do. can you please help me by giving me some precious advices or wazifas. Jazak Allah

Answer:

Alaykum Salam,
 Just renew your repentance each time. If you can, visit Mawlana and
spend time with him. See here.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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