Tribulatons and Tests

Question:

Salamualaykum.

I wanted to know about why some people are tested severely and others not so much?

Also why are some people tested when they increase sincerely in their good deeds and try to be thankful to Allah everyday for His Blessings but then those blessings are taken away when the person has increased his ibadah and shukr to his Lord?

Answer:

Wa`alaikumussalam,

Allah Almighty tests each person in order to purify him and raise him higher and higher according to his capacity.

وَإِذْ تَأَذَّنَ رَبُّكُمْ لَئِن شَكَرْتُمْ لَأَزِيدَنَّكُمْ ۖ وَلَئِن كَفَرْتُمْ إِنَّ عَذَابِى لَشَدِيدٌۭ

And remember! your Lord caused to be declared (publicly): “If you are grateful, I will add more (favours) unto you; But if you show ingratitude, truly My punishment is terrible indeed.” (Ibrahim 14:7)

أَحَسِبَ ٱلنَّاسُ أَن يُتْرَكُوٓا۟ أَن يَقُولُوٓا۟ ءَامَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ

وَلَقَدْ فَتَنَّا ٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ ۖ فَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ ٱللَّهُ ٱلَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا۟ وَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ ٱلْكَٰذِبِينَ

Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, “We believe”, and that they will not be tested? We did test those before them, and God will certainly know those who are true from those who are false. (Al-`Ankabut 29:2-3)

وَلَنَبْلُوَنَّكُم بِشَىْءٍۢ مِّنَ ٱلْخَوْفِ وَٱلْجُوعِ وَنَقْصٍۢ مِّنَ ٱلْأَمْوَٰلِ وَٱلْأَنفُسِ وَٱلثَّمَرَٰتِ ۗ وَبَشِّرِ ٱلصَّٰبِرِينَ

ٱلَّذِينَ إِذَآ أَصَٰبَتْهُم مُّصِيبَةٌۭ قَالُوٓا۟ إِنَّا لِلَّهِ وَإِنَّآ إِلَيْهِ رَٰجِعُونَ

أُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ عَلَيْهِمْ صَلَوَٰتٌۭ مِّن رَّبِّهِمْ وَرَحْمَةٌۭ ۖ وَأُو۟لَٰٓئِكَ هُمُ ٱلْمُهْتَدُونَ

Be sure we shall test you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad tidings to those who patiently persevere, Those who say, when afflicted with calamity: “To God We belong, and to Him is our return”:- They are those on whom (Descend) blessings from God, and Mercy, and they are the ones that receive guidance. (al-Baqarah 2:155-157)

مَّا كَانَ ٱللَّهُ لِيَذَرَ ٱلْمُؤْمِنِينَ عَلَىٰ مَآ أَنتُمْ عَلَيْهِ حَتَّىٰ يَمِيزَ ٱلْخَبِيثَ مِنَ ٱلطَّيِّبِ ۗ وَمَا كَانَ ٱللَّهُ لِيُطْلِعَكُمْ عَلَى ٱلْغَيْبِ وَلَٰكِنَّ ٱللَّهَ يَجْتَبِى مِن رُّسُلِهِۦ مَن يَشَآءُ ۖ فَـَٔامِنُوا۟ بِٱللَّهِ وَرُسُلِهِۦ ۚ وَإِن تُؤْمِنُوا۟ وَتَتَّقُوا۟ فَلَكُمْ أَجْرٌ عَظِيمٌۭ

God will not leave the believers in the state in which ye are now, until He separates what is evil from what is good nor will He disclose to you the secrets of the Unseen. But He chooses of His Messenger. (For the purpose) whom He pleases. So believe in God. And His messengers: And if ye believe and do right, ye have a reward without measure. (Ali ‘Imran 3:179)

ٱلَّذِى خَلَقَ ٱلْمَوْتَ وَٱلْحَيَوٰةَ لِيَبْلُوَكُمْ أَيُّكُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًۭا ۚ وَهُوَ ٱلْعَزِيزُ ٱلْغَفُورُ

He Who created Death and Life, that He may test which of you is best in deed: and He is the Exalted in Might, Oft-Forgiving;- (Al-Mulk 67:2)

إِنَّا خَلَقْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ مِنْ نُطْفَةٍ أَمْشَاجٍ نَبْتَلِيهِ فَجَعَلْنَاهُ سَمِيعًا بَصِيرًاإِنَّا هَدَيْنَاهُ السَّبِيلَ إِمَّا شَاكِرًا وَإِمَّا كَفُورًا

Verily, We have created man from drops of mixed semen in order to test him, so We made him hearer, seer. Verily, We showed him the way, so he is either grateful or ungrateful. (Al-Insan 76: 2-3)

إِنَّا جَعَلْنَا مَا عَلَى الْأَرْضِ زِينَةً لَهَا لِنَبْلُوَهُمْ أَيُّهُمْ أَحْسَنُ عَمَلًا

Verily, We have made that which is on earth as an adornment for it so that We may test them as to which of them are best in deeds. (Al-Kahf 18:7)

وَهُوَ الَّذِي جَعَلَكُمْ خَلَائِفَ الْأَرْضِ وَرَفَعَ بَعْضَكُمْ فَوْقَ بَعْضٍ دَرَجَاتٍ لِيَبْلُوَكُمْ فِي مَا آتَاكُمْ ۗ إِنَّ رَبَّكَ سَرِيعُ الْعِقَابِ وَإِنَّهُ لَغَفُورٌ رَحِيمٌ

And it is He Who has made you generations after generations, replacing each other on the earth. And He has raised you in ranks – some above others – that He may test you in that which He has bestowed on you. Surely, your Lord is Swift in retribution, and certainly He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Al-An`am 6:165)

وَمَآ أَصَٰبَكُم مِّن مُّصِيبَةٍۢ فَبِمَا كَسَبَتْ أَيْدِيكُمْ وَيَعْفُوا۟ عَن كَثِيرٍۢ

Whatever misfortune happens to you, is because on the things your hands have wrought, and for many (of them) He grants forgiveness. (Ash-Shura 42:30)

Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said:

When Allah who is Great and Glorious loves people He afflicts them [with trials].” Tirmidhi

Anyone for whom Allah intends good, He makes him suffer from some affliction.” Bukhari

When Allah intends good for His slave, He punishes him in this world, but when He intends an evil for His slave, He does not hasten to take him to task but calls him to account on the Day of Resurrection.” Tirmidhi

And Allah shall not test His servant more than what he can bear:

لَا نُكَلِّفُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۖ

no burden do We place on any soul, but that which it can bear; (Al-An`am 6:152)

وَلَا نُكَلِّفُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۖ وَلَدَيْنَا كِتَٰبٌۭ يَنطِقُ بِٱلْحَقِّ ۚ وَهُمْ لَا يُظْلَمُونَ

On no soul do We place a burden greater than it can bear: before Us is a record which clearly shows the truth: they will never be wronged. (Al-Mu’minun 23:62)

لَا يُكَلِّفُ ٱللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا ۚ لَهَا مَا كَسَبَتْ وَعَلَيْهَا مَا ٱكْتَسَبَتْ ۗ رَبَّنَا لَا تُؤَاخِذْنَآ إِن نَّسِينَآ أَوْ أَخْطَأْنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تَحْمِلْ عَلَيْنَآ إِصْرًۭا كَمَا حَمَلْتَهُۥ عَلَى ٱلَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِنَا ۚ رَبَّنَا وَلَا تُحَمِّلْنَا مَا لَا طَاقَةَ لَنَا بِهِۦ ۖ وَٱعْفُ عَنَّا وَٱغْفِرْ لَنَا وَٱرْحَمْنَآ ۚ أَنتَ مَوْلَىٰنَا فَٱنصُرْنَا عَلَى ٱلْقَوْمِ ٱلْكَٰفِرِينَ

On no soul does Allah place a burden greater than it can bear. It gets every good that it earns, and it suffers every ill that it earns. “Our Lord! Condemn us not if we forget or fall into error; our Lord! Lay not on us a burden Like that which You did lay on those before us; Our Lord! Lay not on us a burden greater than we have strength to bear. Blot out our sins, and grant us forgiveness. Have mercy on us. You are our Protector; Help us against those who stand against faith.” (Al-Baqarah 2:286)

Wallahu A’lam

Abdul Shakur

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Is hair dye permissable?

Question:

Assalamualaikum Mawlana and all eshaykh Staff,
I needed to know is dying my hair permissible, as some say that the wudu water doesn’t penetrate the hair, but then others say, then how come mehndi (henna) doesn’t coat your hair but dye does? I don’t know. I cover my hair, but I’m asking only for my future husbands pleasure, as my hair has a lot of white hair and they have become very discolored and dull.

I needed an urgent reply.. ‘m very sorry for the inconvenience and bad adab.

JazakAllah. May Allah swt raise all your stations higher and higher.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,
The Messenger of Allah (S) stated:
“Change this color, and stay away from the black (color).”

Therefore, you can change your hair color with other than black.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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Regarding Hajj

Question:

As salaam alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatahu….My question is regarding Hajj & Umrah I know a person who is financially able to perform Hajj should perform Hajj as it is one of the pillars of Islam but what should a person do who isn’t financially able to perform Hajj do? I mean do they need to fast more often, supplicate more often or do what to compensate for this inability?? JazakALLAH Khayr

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Hajj can compensate for every sin but there is nothing to compensate for Hajj. Keep intention of performing Hajj till the last breath.

Imam Senad Agic
Head Imam (IABNA)
The Islamic Association of Bosniaks in North America
American Islamic Center – Chicago

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Prayer Request: Tai al-Lisaan

Request:

Assalamu ‘Alaikum
Is it possible for Maulana Shaykh Hisham to pray for me to be blessed with Tai al-Lisaan, or is this something that is gifted by Allah to blessed people? I have a Wazaif book, but many of them require them to be read in very large numbers, which feels almost impossible, especially since I’m still studying. Sorry for lack of Adab.
Jazakallah, Assalamu ‘Alaikum

Response:

Wa`alaikumussalam,

What is required of us is to do whatever is prescribed in the daily Wazifah. Whatever secrets desired shall be opened, not now, but in the time of Imam al-Mahdi a.s., Insha Allah.

Abdul Shakur

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Dream: Kissing Shaykh, apologising to MSN

Dream:

Dear Shaykh, Assalamu alaykum,
After asking a question yesterday of you, I dreamt in the night: I am apologizing to MSN, feeling truly sorry and he smiles a very sweet and charming smile. He at one point is very close to me physically and caring and I see myself seated and kissing MSH on the face, intimately and he turns into a beautiful young man, possibly for my need for a man.

Please could you interpret? Thank you humbly.

Interpretation:

Alaykum as-Salam,
They are praying for you to get married soon in sha Allah. Recite Ya Fattah Ya Razzaq daily x100.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Prayer Request: A boy I love

Request:

Assalamouilaikoum, I’m really in love with this boy named [private]since 6 months…. He ignores me and he doesn’t love me. He knows about my feelings though I have never spoken a word to him. He just avoids me..Plz pray to Allah that he  realizes my love and respect for him and begins to love me… Plz pray for me and make duas for me that he accepts me. Please…

Response:

Wa`alaikumussalam,

Insha Allah Shaykh Hisham will pray for you. Recite Yaa Latif, Yaa Wadud 100x each daily. Concealing your signals lend no reciprocation. Should his behaviour betrays your feelings, our advise is to move on and pray to Allah for someone better.

Abdul Shakur

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Dream: La illaha illa llah

Dream:

Assalam alleikum,
I was in a store & I saw people whom I thought would harass me cause I was Muslim so I wished they were Muslim in my heart. I asked how can they be Muslim and I was shown children’s books. Then in the middle of the store there was a Muslim man with white clothes, olive skinned, and a dark beard. I was about to leave the store but his heart told me to look around then in the shelves I saw la illaha illa llah & Allah’s name on glasses. I continued looking around and I saw Muslim women sitting in another section that opened and I laughed and said this is where you were hiding. If I can understand the meaning thank you.

Interpretation:

Alaykum Salam,
Man represents murshid kamil, Allah on glasses represents Naqshbandi women, children’s books represents innocence and family life, and Allah knows best.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Permission to recite

Question:

AsSalamu Alaikium,
I am not bayt in any silsila but I would like to seek your permission to recite the following:

1. Hisbunallah wa Naimal Wakeel
2. Ya Wakeelo Ya Kafeelo
3. Ya Shafi Ya Kafi Ya Mu’afi
4. Alhamdulillah Shukranlillah
5. Rabun Allah Hisbun Allah
When should I recite (time) and how many times (x 100).
Thanks and very best regards

Answer:

Alaykum as-Salam,
Take bayaa online with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani and you have permission. You may recite anytime in 24 hrs, x100.

Hajj Gibril Haddad

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Sheikh Nazim al Haqqani’s Family

Question:

I’ve been trying to find out the family line or chain for sheikh Nazim al Haqqani but I’ve not been able to find it anywhere please could you answer my question thank you.

Answer:

Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani wrote in Classical Islam and the Naqshbandi Sufi Tradition as cited at the Naqshbandi Website:

His lineage from his father’s side traces its roots to Sayiddina `Abdul Qadir Jilani, founder of the Qadiri Order. His lineage from his mother goes back to Sayiddina Jalaluddin Rumi, founder of the Mevlevi Order. He is  Hassani-Hussaini, related to the Prophet (s) through the lineages of his grandfathers to the Family of the Prophet (s). From his father’s side he received the Qadiri Tariqat. From his mother’s, the Mevlevi Tariqat.

Taher Siddiqui

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Prayer Request: Firm Iman

Request:

AsalamuAlaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatu
My Iman has been very weak and slippery lately.
Please make dua for me and my family that Allah swt grants us yaqin and assists us against the Shaytan and his insinuations.

Also in need of advice on fighting Shaytan and maintaining yaqin.

Response:

Wa`alaikumussalam,

Insha Allah, Shaykh Hisham is praying for you. Keep your tongue moist with dhikr Allah, Allah. Keep company with the good and pious people.

Abdul Shakur

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