Request:

My childhood friend [private] is closer to me than a best friend she is exactly like my sister. both her parents are re-married and they are not supportive or practicing Muslims. [private] has been dumped at her grandmas house from a young age. she has been close to my family from a very young age because we support her like she is our own. Please pray for her she is studying at university now to get away from her grandma who treats her very badly she is not a good woman and does not look after [private] properly. Please pray allah guides her keeps her healthy and happy in this life and the next and brings her a good husband. thank you

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for her.

Taher Siddiqui

Request:

Salaam my previous question and answer from SHAYKH HISHAM was Request:

Salaam, I would like to request for an istekhara to be done for me and a man that I like, for the purpose of marriage from Shaykh.

JazakAllah khairun,
Salaam

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Recite hasbunAllah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100 times and go ahead.

Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani

However, since then, the circumstances have changed. I no longer speak to this man. He is Shaykh Hishams Mureed. I wanted to Shaykh Hisham if they could give me some guidance on this matter Insha Allah

JazakAllah Khairun
Salaam

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Go ahead and speak to him.

Taher Siddiqui

Request:

i am a young muslim male employed alhamdulillah . i am looking for a home for myself .my father has been dead for ten years and although i am working my mother’s family does not want me to live in her house..please make du’a that i find a house of my own and not get fired from my job.

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is making du`a for you.

Taher Siddiqui

Question:

Salam Alaykom wr Sayyidi!

once again this weak and sinner is bothering You, I’m very happy from my Life, Allah has given me everything Alhamdulillah… I’ve just started my Uni and studying a 3/4 yrs Civil engineering course, plz tell Mawlana shaykh Hisham to pray to graduate my course successfully & for being steadfast on Deen, pray so that I may not fall in any illegal sexual intercourses and also to plz pray for the guidance of my family…
JazakAllah khairan

May Alla bless shaykh Hisham, all other shuyukh and eShaykh staff

Answer:

wa ‘alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

You should have your parents seek a suitable partner for you and at least get engaged with the intention of nikah as soon as you complete university, or better, while you are in the university. The walima can be postponed until later. If they don’t understand the pressure you are under, take your father aside and explain it. Ask him if he prefers an “educated” son who has done fornication, or son who is pure and kept from all haram?

Taher Siddiqui

Question:

Assalamualaikum.

How to cure emotional disturb?i have bad thoughts and swear to islam, allah and his rasul-rasul. It makes me feel doubt about my deen, islam practice.
I feel confuse, lost. I feel was-was about myself, life. I feel stressful and it is unpleasant feeling too. Im not sure about my life here. I already tried to feel positive and clarify myself but still i will go back to it. Im not sure my way. I dont know how to make first step again, im scare i will fail and feel insecure.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your upliftment.

The first step is to repent sincerely, make ghusl, pray 2 raka`ts of Tawbah, and ask Allah to forgive you through the intermediation of Sayyidina Muhammad (s) by reciting:

السلام عليك يا رسول الله إني سمعت قول الله تعالى (وَلَوْ أَنَّهُمْ إِذ ظَّلَمُواْ أَنفُسَهُمْ جَآؤُوكَ فَاسْتَغْفَرُواْ اللّهَ وَاسْتَغْفَرَ لَهُمُ الرَّسُولُ لَوَجَدُواْ اللّهَ تَوَّابًا رَّحِيمًا) وإني اتيتك يا رسول الله مستغفرا ذنبي مستشفعا بك الى ربي

As-salamu `alayka ya Rasul-Allah. Inni sami`tu qawl allahu ta`ala: Wa law annahum idh zhalamoo anfusahum ja’ooka fa ’staghfaroollaha w ’astaghfara lahumu’r-rasoolu la-wajadoollaha tawwaban raheema . Wa inni ataytuka ya Rasulullahi mustaghfiran dhanbi mustashfi`an bika ila rabbi.

“Peace be upon you, O Messenger of Allah! I have heard Allah saying: {If they had only, when they were unjust to themselves, come unto thee and asked Allah’s forgiveness, and the Messenger had asked forgiveness for them, they would have found Allah indeed Oft-returning, Most Merciful}( 4:64), so I have come to you asking forgiveness for my sin, seeking your intercession with my Lord.”

Then most important after this is to take baya` (initiation) with a guiding murshid. We recommend to take online baya` with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani.

Taher Siddiqui

Request:

Assalamoualaykoum Ya Sayyidi Mowlanah Shaik Hisham, may Allah increase your stations in dunya and aakhirah. Ameen.

My name is [private]

I lost my job last year in the UK and i have also not been able to find a suitable wife in the UK despite looking for a long time.
I am seeking your istikarah/permission on whether i can move to my home country in Mauritius in order to get a job there and get married.
I really need yours and Mowlana Shaik Nazim(q) blessings/duahs if i were to move there as in the past, my business dealings have not been successful there due to jealousy, hasad.

JazakAllah and May Allah reward you for your guidance and advice. Ameen

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

See the post “MIGRATION“.

For protection from hasad, See the Post “Black Magic & Nazar“.

Staff