Question:

Salam Alaykom wr Sayyidi!

once again this weak and sinner is bothering You, I’m very happy from my Life, Allah has given me everything Alhamdulillah… I’ve just started my Uni and studying a 3/4 yrs Civil engineering course, plz tell Mawlana shaykh Hisham to pray to graduate my course successfully & for being steadfast on Deen, pray so that I may not fall in any illegal sexual intercourses and also to plz pray for the guidance of my family…
JazakAllah khairan

May Alla bless shaykh Hisham, all other shuyukh and eShaykh staff

Answer:

wa ‘alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

You should have your parents seek a suitable partner for you and at least get engaged with the intention of nikah as soon as you complete university, or better, while you are in the university. The walima can be postponed until later. If they don’t understand the pressure you are under, take your father aside and explain it. Ask him if he prefers an “educated” son who has done fornication, or son who is pure and kept from all haram?

Taher Siddiqui

Question:

Assalamualaikum.

How to cure emotional disturb?i have bad thoughts and swear to islam, allah and his rasul-rasul. It makes me feel doubt about my deen, islam practice.
I feel confuse, lost. I feel was-was about myself, life. I feel stressful and it is unpleasant feeling too. Im not sure about my life here. I already tried to feel positive and clarify myself but still i will go back to it. Im not sure my way. I dont know how to make first step again, im scare i will fail and feel insecure.

Answer:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani is praying for your upliftment.

The first step is to repent sincerely, make ghusl, pray 2 raka`ts of Tawbah, and ask Allah to forgive you through the intermediation of Sayyidina Muhammad (s) by reciting:

السلام عليك يا رسول الله إني سمعت قول الله تعالى (وَلَوْ أَنَّهُمْ إِذ ظَّلَمُواْ أَنفُسَهُمْ جَآؤُوكَ فَاسْتَغْفَرُواْ اللّهَ وَاسْتَغْفَرَ لَهُمُ الرَّسُولُ لَوَجَدُواْ اللّهَ تَوَّابًا رَّحِيمًا) وإني اتيتك يا رسول الله مستغفرا ذنبي مستشفعا بك الى ربي

As-salamu `alayka ya Rasul-Allah. Inni sami`tu qawl allahu ta`ala: Wa law annahum idh zhalamoo anfusahum ja’ooka fa ’staghfaroollaha w ’astaghfara lahumu’r-rasoolu la-wajadoollaha tawwaban raheema . Wa inni ataytuka ya Rasulullahi mustaghfiran dhanbi mustashfi`an bika ila rabbi.

“Peace be upon you, O Messenger of Allah! I have heard Allah saying: {If they had only, when they were unjust to themselves, come unto thee and asked Allah’s forgiveness, and the Messenger had asked forgiveness for them, they would have found Allah indeed Oft-returning, Most Merciful}( 4:64), so I have come to you asking forgiveness for my sin, seeking your intercession with my Lord.”

Then most important after this is to take baya` (initiation) with a guiding murshid. We recommend to take online baya` with Mawlana Shaykh Nazim al-Haqqani.

Taher Siddiqui

Request:

Assalamoualaykoum Ya Sayyidi Mowlanah Shaik Hisham, may Allah increase your stations in dunya and aakhirah. Ameen.

My name is [private]

I lost my job last year in the UK and i have also not been able to find a suitable wife in the UK despite looking for a long time.
I am seeking your istikarah/permission on whether i can move to my home country in Mauritius in order to get a job there and get married.
I really need yours and Mowlana Shaik Nazim(q) blessings/duahs if i were to move there as in the past, my business dealings have not been successful there due to jealousy, hasad.

JazakAllah and May Allah reward you for your guidance and advice. Ameen

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

See the post “MIGRATION“.

For protection from hasad, See the Post “Black Magic & Nazar“.

Staff

Request:

al Salam u alaikum ya Shaykh iv been married for 4 years i been applying for work since i had job but for only temporary, i been offed a job i have accepted it, inshala i would get but there has been problems for me as everyone knows as i can’t pass exam for some time i like if you can tell me any dua to pass this exam and a driving test, I’ve been praying and reading to get my life forward and even gave Sadka for me and my family. it won’t go right for me i have very bad dreams example black spider attacking me and i pull out hair from my lips i don’t know what to do i think to my self is it Nazar or people bad dua or a test from Allah Almighty.

Allah bless you

Please help me

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Mawlana Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you.

Continue to give small daily sadaqa and keep your ablution (wudu) as much as possible and recite hasbunallah wa ni`ama ‘l-wakeel 100x daily.

Don’t give up, but accept any job, however menial. As Shaykh Hisham Kabbani has explained, when Allah sees the servant submitting and accepting the rizq He is sending, and giving thanks, He will send more, insha-Allah.

Taher Siddiqui

Request:

786.. Asalam Alaikum warahmatullah wabarakatu respected and dear Sh. Hisham, may Allah (swt) increase Mawlana Sheikh Nazim’s station and yours here and hereafter. Iam praying inshallah you respond to my duwah rqst. I recently came back from Lefke, and when I had the blessed opportunity to visit mawlana, I became totally mute out of awe of him. Please pray for my dunya, qabr, and akhirat as Iam very scared. And that everyday I become closer and closer to allah, rasool (sws) and Mawlana. I wish to advance spiritually, if Iam accepted. rather than dunya, iam more interested in being close to Allah, rasool, sws and awliya. May allah swt be pleased with all of you and bless you. Pls send my salams to Hajja Naziha

Response:

wa `alaykum salam,

Insha-Allah Shaykh Hisham Kabbani is praying for you for this life and the next and for all murids of Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Nazim al-Haqqani.

Taher Siddiqui