Request:
Assalam o Alaykum wr wb shaykh Hasim
I have been facing alot of obstacles all my life put in my way by people’s spells etc. I also face everyday argument with my sister which makes me depressed. I don’t like it if she argues with anyone in the family so I find myself always in the middle and I think I have had enough. Is there anything you can suggest, a prayer or a way to understand her better in order to stop the arguments? Because it is everyday over nothing. I feel even if I do the awrad, it is spoilt as I always have to argue back, and if I ignore her then I find myself talking myself to sleep or sometimes cannot sleep, as I know she also curses when she argues
Response:
audhu billah mina ‘sh-shaytani ‘r-rajeem,
Bismillahi ‘r-Rahmani ‘r-Raheem,
wa `alaykum salam,
The Prophet (s) said: Arguing extinguishes the light of the heart. Don’t argue back, submit to Allah’s Will and pray for yourself and herself.
http://www.naqshbandi.org/adab/Salatu%20munajiyyah.pdf
Dr. Karim Tourk
