Request:
As-Salam alykom Mawlana(q) and Hajjah(q),
My aunt proposed marriage of her son, in India with me. Family’s planning for wedding in october. I dont want this marriage, when dad asks why?I have no valid objection. His family are good people, and its really generous of him, cause m divorced and he is single and even younger than me. I avoid talking to him, and our families so upset at it. Dont know what i want.
I sent a request if its good proposal? but got no reply (so assuming no! Is it appropriate to assume silence as no?)
Forgive me Sayyidi, m too weak. Teach me and guide me. Increase you and love for you such that m submerged in it, leave me not even for a moment, Sayyidi.
Love and salam to You and family.
Making Intention to visit and kiss your feet soon, please accept it.
Response:
wa `alaykum salam,
Listen to your family and don’t let Shaytan play with you going here and there. You know how Pakistani culture goes when someone is divorced. Say ‘shukran ya Rabb‘ that someone, and he is younger also, is asking to marry you and marry him.
Mawlana Shaykh Muhammad Hisham Kabbani
