Request:
I’m married since 9 yrs and still cannot get intercourse, too painful (suffer from vaginismus). Abused when aged 4 by cousins (more victims including my 2 sisters, suffering same problem with no children). I did AI to have a child who’s 7 now and he’s autistic. My twinsister adopted, unfortunately her child too became autistic. We’ve been doing rukya because of blackmagic, nonverbal son and nephew talked about things (evil jinns) frightening them. Actually on 60th day of Grandshaykh’s prescription for blackmagic removal. Husband blames my parents, holds them responsible for our situation and child’s condition, stopped bringing us to their place. He stopped doing namaz, feels anger and hatred always, hate see me do zikr, doesn’t want me to wear hijab. Pease ask Mawlana Shaykh Hisham to do doa for our health, kids get better, our husband be kind, love us, for my family, to be close to our Shaykh, Holy Prophet(SAW) and Allah.
Response:
Mawlana Shaykh Hisham is praying for you and your sisters, spouses and children. Let you and your sisters read Fatiha in your hearts when experiencing duress and continue to show tenderness and love to your children. Rahma of Allah encompasses you and them, so keep good cheer and let your strong iman be a guiding light for your children. It will
slowly remove their fears and they will improve in sha Allah. Be patient with husbands, your reward is assured and Allah loves those who are patient and supports them. Hatred only brings on problems while Salat opens light from heaven onto your lives. They will turn around in sha Allah. Keep Bismillah al-Rahman al-Rahim and dhikr in your hearts at all times especially when cooking and before sleep.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
