Request:
Asalamu alaykum shuyukh,
I just wanted an answer to my four questions please.
1. Do I have to do it for 40 days
2. Are there any side effects if I read it without having Wudu?
3. Do I have to make the first contact if I’ve never spoken to him in my life?
4. Is there anything that I can read to clear this person out of my heart if he isn’t a good match for me., because this is starting to effect my daily functioning. There are also a lot of other guys interested in getting to know me for marriage but I can’t seem to escape this guy and I’m afraid if I get to know other guys I will lose him. Please advise me because I need your intervention
Response:
wa `alaykum salam
For questions 1-3, see here.
You may follow Shaykh Gibril’s advice in the Post “To stop caring and to forget“.
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