Request:
Asalamu alaykum shuyukh.
I have two cousins that are both interested in me. My family is happy with the family and their family is happy with us. Out of the two guys there’s one that’s religious but I don’t know his personality. The other has a nice personality, but I him to be learning more about the deen.
One is [private], I don’t know the mum. The other is [private] and his mother is [private]. They are both [private] born.
My name is [private] and my mother is [private].
Who is better for my akhira and dunya? I don’t want to make a choice that will impact my akhira, and I want someone who will be a good example for me and my kids. A husband who is a leader and knows his fardh.
Response:
Alaykum Salam,
Make ablutions, pray two rakaat, ask Allah to enlighten you in your choice, and follow the inspiration He sends to your heart.
Hajj Gibril Haddad
